Crossing cultures of many kinds
Thursday, November 13th, 2008 by jenI recently heard a playwright of Italian descent describing his cultural heritage in terms of the U.S. discourse about race. It reminds me that we all exist within the frames of history and of appearance, of inheritance and of choice. What we claim or ignore, what we seek out in our own histories or appreciate in others’, all fits into this bigger picture.
To honor the big picture, here are two more stories of cross-cultural marriages, sent to us in response to our Yohen conversation:
“I am a Jewish American. My husband is Welsh and from a Christian-but-not-especially family. Although there have been some moments of confusion caused by our different backgrounds, like when my then-boyfriend told me on the phone about his favorite jumper and I spent all day imagining him in a dress instead of a sweater, or when we had to explain to my grandmother-in-law what a menorah is, overall it has worked to our advantage. Our families share NO holidays in common, so there is never an argument about where to go for any of them. And we think our son will have little trouble distinguishing himself on college applications if he speaks both Welsh and Hebrew. In general, our family enjoys all of our various cultural foibles. And in the end, while my husband and I may have originally been attracted by our similarities, it is our differences that have kept us interested.”
-Jemma Levy, wife of Steve Smith
“My grandmother is German and met my grandfather, a US serviceman, right after WWII when he was based in Bremen. They have a great story - including some interesting things I recently found out regarding her citizenship. And I have a great classic-looking photo of them embracing on the streets of Bremen….her in total 40s look and him in his uniform….”
-LaRonika Thomas
Thank you, Jemma and LaRonika, for sharing the stories of your families!














